Ideas to help:
- Pray over the child.
- Speak calmly in low calm tones, sing songs.
- Give a “tour” of toys or cars out the window.
- Try to help them tune out any chaos that could be adding to overstimulation (face away from other children, point out simple things “This ball is orange. Do you like orange?”)
- If the child doesn’t want to be held, honor it and give them space.
- If the child does want to be held, honor it when possible.
If nothing works:
- If a child is inconsolable for five consecutive minutes (crying/screaming) then page the parent.
- When the parent arrives, give them a few minutes to soothe the child, and let them know that they can try again immediately, anytime during this service or next week, whatever they would prefer.
- If they are interested, give the parents the printout on “Smooth Drop-Offs”.
- Ask what we can do to help their child be more successful staying in Nursery/Toddlers.
- Let the Director know so we can follow up with families to support them coming to church.